Many of you out there expect to have a perfect home or what I’ll call a readymade happiness somewhere. But one thing you’ve failed to understand is that nothing good comes without the sweat of a man.
“My husband will have cars, big house and all the chores will be taken care of by the maids”.
And so you’ll begin to look for cars to take you on a ride, from rides to the bed and from the bed, you start picturing yourself living in the mansion, owning the car and being the General manager of the home.
Yes naa, You just want to walk into a furnished home, sit your ass down and eat all the good and groceries, watch TV, wear good clothes and ride the cars and call your self a human.
Maybe you’ve forgotten that behind every successful man is a woman. But if you’ve forgotten, I’ll have you understand that he didn’t acquire such wealth without the presence of a woman in his life.
That home you’re looking at is another woman’s right my dear. Its not yours.
If he’s rich right now, just remember there must have been someone with him in his days of Drinking Garri and Groundnut. If he’s rich today, its probably the supports and prayers of one special lady that got him there.
She must have been there during his trying times and would definitely be back to claim her block. So don’t just go there and sit and begin to assume you’re the boss lady cos the real boss will come and kick your ass of the crib.
Make your own happiness. If you don’t know how to, I’ll teach you.
That guy you love so much that has no money but has a good and bright future, why not bear with him? What would be so wrong to pray and always encourage him?
Do you not know that he will definitely not forget your role in his life in the nearest future?
Come in aunty. Don’t carry your ass to a place where you’ll be labelled “A Gold digger”, make your own goldmine and live to enjoy the royalties that follows.
I’ve seen ladies in pain. They’re in pain not cos they’re hungry or have no good clothes, cars, good account balance. They’re in pain cos they live in a place where they’re constantly reminded of the cost of the chair they sit on, the TV they watch, the spoon they use in eating and the price of the car they drive.
They’ve practically become price tags instead of the woman or wife they ought to be.
Do not make your self a price tag. Build your own empire with your man and enjoy the benefits of monopoly.
This is of course if you still have some atom of co science left in you anyways.
Thank you for reading.
©MrPinner 2017
